I find this extremely disheartening on occasion, not to mention theologically dishonest, that hundreds and hundreds of Christian peers of mine that I’ve met and interacted with in my adulthood…that very very very few seem actually sold out on the Biblically-sound idea that it’s actually ok that they’re not in a relationship or currently married. In fact, very very veryfew actually see it as the blessing that it really is (FYI, as much as one would try to justify otherwise, Biblically speaking, you can serve God more effectively than not-married [not true for all specific cases of course, just generally true due to the time/effort commitment marriage and a family pose]…I didn’t say it – and this is a
I could go on, but it’s just disheartening to really never meet any guys that are, or have been ok, with not being in a relationship. Yeah there are plenty of single guys out there…but you’d be hard pressed finding any that are single, content, and not looking – and relying on divine sovereignty. Valentine’s Day seems to exacerbate the situation… And I haven’t mentioned the idolization and over-hyping sex gets…again both in and out of the church.
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